You’ve lost track of the number of times your therapist has (not so subtly) recommended couples therapy. So here you are, scrolling therapist profiles (again), searching for answers to a problem (feeling?) you can’t quite put words to. It’s crazy-making how you can both know her so well and be so totally mystified by her at the same time. You ask how to help…her answer: you can’t. You’ve done enough research that couples work seems like the right next step. And not at all a sign that you’re doomed as a couple…Right?? It’s either this or become an intuitive medium, because there’s no other way you’re going to suddenly start understanding what’s going on with her.

This is by far the most meaningful relationship you’ve ever had. The delete all the apps after your first date kind of connection. And, despite the connection, the relationship has stalled. Despite her assurance that nothing is wrong…something is wrong. So how is it that you both desire connection and feel so distant from each other at the same time? You want desperately to understand her and yet find her incredibly hard to read.

You’ve sought out plenty of advice–your therapist, your friends, r/relationship…that’s all great but you need someone to help you facilitate a conversation and get to the heart of the matter (not try and read her mind). You used to flee when shit got hard (or serious). Now: you please, or fix…your intention is good but her wall is up for a reason and let's find out why.

Have you ever had a shared therapist? It’s pretty magical. Learning to clearly and accurately convey your emotions so that you both feel seen and heard? That’s basically relationship gold! I’m the interpreter you wish you had during all of those non-arguments–someone who understands both sides and helps you both to find the language to start communicating again. Email me to get started today.

• Young Adult: 18-25
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therapywithjoannalay.com

2155 Union St SF, CA 94123- in person

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If you’re interested in working together, please email me to set up a free discovery call (phone or video). During the call, we’ll explore what’s bringing you to therapy and discuss in more detail what you’re wanting support with. I’ll explain how I work, answer any questions you may have, and together we can decide if we would be a good fit to work together. I’m looking forward to connecting with you!

Rulik Perla, LMFT 43965

09/28/23